You have finally found the home of your dreams, but how much should you offer? Without a doubt this is the question I am asked most frequently when working with buyers, especially first-time home buyers. It isn’t always an easy question to answer but there are a few tips to help you make that decision:
There often comes a time when the home where we are living just isn’t working anymore. Whether it is trying to navigate stairs after a stroke, opening doors with arthritic hands, or just having a yard that is more work than you choose to manage at this time, the thought of downsizing and moving can be overwhelming. Luckily there are services today that can help with a variety of issues that will need to be addressed, from figuring out a way to stay in your home a little longer to getting help hauling off all those “treasures” that no one in the family seems to want.
How can I age in place? There are modifications that can be made to your current home to help with a variety of issues. If opening and closing doors has become difficult you may want to consider changing out standard door knobs to the lever-type. These are much easier for arthritic hands to manage and can make a world of difference in accessing all the rooms in your home. You can also hire someone to put in ramps to make navigating steps easier. If your yard is more than you can handle, consider hiring a yard service to help with the maintenance. You can even put puff paint (available at most craft stores) on the buttons on your microwave to help you distinguish the start, stop and number buttons. All of these modifications can help you stay in the home you love longer.
Where will I go? When you realize that it is time to downsize you need to sit down and assess your needs. Meeting with family, close friends or trusted professionals such as doctors, attorneys or financial planners can help with this decision. Know what your limitations are and remember to choose something that doesn’t just work today but can work into the future. This may not be your last move but some of the options are a single story smaller home, a condominium, an independent living facility or even an assisted living facility. Knowing where you plan to move to will help you know how many of your things you will need to keep.
I need to downsize, what do I do with my things? Most of us have acquired quite a few possessions throughout life, and it can be overwhelming to know what to do with everything. The first recommendation is that you “gift” away anything you can do without that you would like family or friends to have. From Grandmas’ quilt to Daddy’s coin collection, give away the things that you planned for family members to take. This makes it so you can be sure that the person you wanted to have it actually gets it. For those things you don’t choose to gift away, consider a yard sale or an estate sale.
No one seems to want my doilies and bottle cap collection. It’s true that you probably won’t get a taker for everything you want to get rid of. If you can’t give it away and you can’t sell it, consider donating it. But make sure you are donating something of value. If it really doesn’t have any value, perhaps the local landfill is the best place for it to be. Yes, it’s true that one person’s treasure is another person’s trash. Don’t’ take it personally, after all it is just “stuff”.
Downsizing will never be easy, but finding a service that can help you accomplish all of these tasks can certainly simplify it. Simple Senior Transitions can help you through this process and reduce the stress and worry.
I was looking for a subject for my blog this week and did what most people in my situation do—I googled it. I found a great site with some ideas, but most did not really apply to our market area. One that made me laugh out loud was, “popular restaurants in your local area and how to get a coveted reservation”. Now don’t get me wrong, we have some great local restaurants, but there generally isn’t much trouble getting a reservation and some of the best places to eat don’t even take reservations. So, here are a few of my favorite places to eat in our local area. I know that you will have your favorites too so be sure to share in the comments.
I admit that I absolutely love Mexican food. I think I could eat Mexican food almost every night of the week. We have plenty of Mexican restaurants in our local area, but my favorites are the local tacqueria-style places. My kids have long favored Antonio’s Quick Lunch, and what’s not to love about Tortilleria Flores. El Taco Naco in Olivehurst has some pretty tasty food too. I love El Zarape for their crab enchiladas—they are pricey but worth it. I admit that I am missing the taco truck that was always parked in Plumas Lake though. With no real options for eating out in PL, it was nice to know I could at least grab a quick burrito or taco.
When I want a nice meal with a great wait staff we go to Pasquini’s. Their bread is delicious and the Steak John appetizer is the best around. I have tried to duplicate it at home, but I can’t quite master it. It doesn’t really matter, it’s nice to have table service now and again anyway. City Café has been a consistent winner, although I admit I haven’t been for a while. Their salmon is always delicious and perfectly prepared.
Have you tried Cool Hand Luke’s? I have been a couple of times but the long wait always discourages me. The food is fine, but I am not one to stand around for 20-30 minutes waiting for a table, sometimes longer. The Refuge is set to re-open, again. I look forward to trying out the newest version of fine dining here in the Yuba Sutter area.
While we don’t have a lot of restaurants that demand reservations, and none that require them weeks in advance, we have quite a few local options with great food and great service. The best part of eating locally is that we are supporting our local businesses that employ our neighbors, friends, and family. So the next time you are looking for a place to eat out, just look around, you won’t have to look far. Let me know your favorites in the comment section below, I am always looking to try something new.